Two ideas I’ve always hated. One, just because it’s your “family” that means you have to put up with their bullshit. Two, just because someone is an “elder” they deserve your respect by default.
Fuck that. If your family is toxic and makes you miserable, don’t put up with it. And if someone doesn’t respect you, you don’t have to respect them, period.
"You have to learn to get up from the table when love is no longer being served."